Overcome shitty self-doubt stories and social expectations. Show up in your creative work with clarity, confidence & sustainability.

From: lack of clarity and confidence in your work To: knowing who you are and what you want

From: fear/ indecision/overwhelm To: courageous and confident creativity

From: procrastination/perfectionism/people pleasing To: clear and decisive action

Hi friend. I am Esme Filsinger – self doubt and confidence coach for creatives

As a self-belief coach, I help creative people like you to step away from shitty conditioning and self doubt, and step into who you want, need and desire to be in your creativity and work.

Too often creative folks (like you and me, honey!) are:

  • Feeling stuck and unable to be authentic in your creative work – fear of being visible, procrastination, people pleasing, perfectionism… or even just plain old BRAIN MELT. Blah.
  • Feeling unclear about what you should be doing and what action to take – always trying new solutions which never quite stick.
  • Always feeling like an impostor – comparing yourself to others and never feeling quite… enough.

Well i say ENOUGH!

As a self-belief coach, I believe in finding an approach to creative work that honours your own needs and boundaries. True mindset shifts happen when we gently uncover and disarm the root causes of self-doubt. True sustainability and satisfaction happens when we create solid strategies based on who you are and how your unique mind works.

I can work with you to:

  • Work on your self-doubt and mindset so you can develop confidence in your work – Say goodbye to shitty social expectations, and say hello to meeting your own needs and desires
  • Uncover your strengths, skills, and, values – Say hello to self belief, purpose, and authenticity in your work!
  • Develop strategies and systems that are designed around YOU and your unique and beautiful mind – Say hello to taking consistent action towards your goals

Check out what my clients say

“Working with Esme has been so refreshing, I feel like I have completely overhauled my life through our work together!

I really valued Esme’s flexibility; Esme’s approach was always adapting – always finding the right balance between supporting me and encouraging me to step out of my comfort zone. I now have a completely different perspective on my work and how I want my work to fit into my life, rather than the other way around.

Through coaching, I have been able to recognise patterns of behaviour that I was unaware of previously; recognising and changing these has been truly life changing.

While coachimg with Esme, I learnt so much about myself! I was able to recognise my people pleasing tendencies and how this behaviour was negatively impacting my work and my life beyond work. Coming to this realisation was something that I was resistant to at first but, with Esme’s non-judgemental guidance, I was able to accept this about myself and take steps to change this behaviour. Steps which have radically changed my wellbeing and quality of life.”

Hannah Buckler


“My time with Esme was so beneficial. I was feeling really overwhelmed with how to approach making changes in my business and dreading hearing that I had a lot of work to do.

Esme was so reassuring, she pointed out all the things that I already had in place which made me breathe a sigh of relief and also has given me the confidence to continue making small manageable adjustments to my business that I know will have a long term impact.

Esme put me at ease from the word go and during our session, and I felt totally comfortable and free to ask questions and raise any worries that I had. Highly recommend any business owner looking for clarity and accountability to get in touch with Esme.”

Fiona Thomas

“Before enrolling in coaching with Esme, I felt excited about launching a new project, but unclear about the steps I needed to take to reach my goals. Since I started coaching with Esme, I’ve been able to clarify my aims, build practices that allow me to plan my day, month and even the next three years, and develop a better relationship with money.

Working with Esme is like a night out dancing with your best ones. It’s empowering, energising and will make you want to do it all over again. If you are thinking about coaching with Esme, you need to know how much support, nourishment and clarity you’ll get, because once you sign up you’ll definitely start making things happen and that’s when you’ll needthose things the most. Through coaching with Esme, I learnt that I am able to make a living and support my community without “selling out”.

Grace Kress

No Sexism, No Racism, No Ableism, No Ageism, No Homophobia, No Fatphobia, No Transphobia, S*x work is work, No Pineapple on Pizza.

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